If he shut the doors of the house of mourning against me, I would come back again and again and beg to be admitted, so that I might share in what I was entitled to share in.
Meaning
Writing from prison, Wilde described the right of a friend to share another's sorrow, not only their joys. Being let into someone's grief is a mark of trust. When a friend is hurting, show up and stay present instead of waiting to be asked or offering quick fixes.
Source: De Profundis (1897)
About the author
(1854–1900) was an Irish poet, playwright, and novelist known for his wit, satire, and flamboyant style. His works, including "The Picture of Dorian Gray" and "The Importance of Being Earnest," explore themes of beauty, morality, and social hypocrisy. Wilde’s writing is celebrated for its clever dialogue and sharp observations. Despite personal challenges, his work achieved lasting recognition. Oscar Wilde’s legacy continues to influence literature, theatre, and cultural thought.
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