In the face of a true friend a man sees as it were a second self.
Meaning
In section seven of Cicero's dialogue on friendship, as translated by Shuckburgh, Laelius says a real friend feels like another version of you, so mutual understanding comes easily. Notice who in your life you can be fully honest with, and reach out to them this week.
Source: De Amicitia (Laelius), section 7 (c. 44 BC)
About the author
(106–43 BCE) was a Roman statesman, orator, and philosopher who played a key role in the politics of the late Roman Republic. Known for his eloquence and rhetorical skill, Cicero’s speeches and writings have had a lasting influence on Western thought. He contributed significantly to political theory, law, and ethics, promoting the ideals of justice and republican governance. His works helped preserve Greek philosophy for future generations. Cicero’s emphasis on civic duty and moral integrity continues to resonate in discussions on leadership and governance.
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