Of course he shares your interests; otherwise he would not become your friend at all.
Meaning
Lewis recounts in his memoir how he came to see that a friend's agreement on interests is only the starting condition, not the whole bond. Use shared ground as an invitation: start with what you both like, then stay curious about the ways the person differs.
Source: Surprised by Joy (1955)
About the author
(1898–1963) was a British writer, scholar, and theologian best known for "The Chronicles of Narnia" series. His works combine fantasy, philosophy, and Christian themes, appealing to readers of all ages. Lewis was also a respected academic, teaching at Oxford and Cambridge, and wrote extensively on literature, theology, and apologetics. His book "Mere Christianity" remains a widely read exploration of faith. Lewis’s storytelling ability and intellectual depth have made his works timeless. He continues to influence literature, theology, and popular culture around the world.
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