We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success.
Meaning
In a chapter of Self-Help about experience, Smiles points out that mistakes teach lessons that easy wins hide. Success feels good but rarely explains itself. After your next setback, write down three specific causes and one change you will make, so the failure pays you back.
Source: Self-Help (1859)
About the author
Scottish author and reformer best known for Self-Help (1859), a Victorian bestseller on character, thrift and perseverance.
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